Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, 14 October 2013

Weekly Wishes - Week#4



Happy Monday Morning Everyone!


This week's Weekly Wishes theme is 'Celebrate'. I thought about showing you some photos of our wedding, but then I'm intending on spoiling you with a whole post all on its own, someday.
So, I decided to play with a photo I took of the amazing afternoon tea my friend made for us yesterday...
I truly think I ate my own weight in that there cheese & cake!

We weren't celebrating anything in particular, other than friendship - which is always worth celebrating in my book! It's always lovely to meet up with my best friends from school - even more so now one of us brings her gorgeous baby boy and all we 'Aunties' get cuddles & to hear his lovely gurgly baby giggles. 
(broody?....yes, you bet!)



Back to my wishes.....

Last week I had only one wish....to switch off all appliances & distractions and spend each afternoon working at my kitchen table.
Did I achieve this? Well, yes I think I did. 
There was one exception on Wednesday, where my laptop and I had a minor disagreement and I spent most of the day getting it to work. But, we're friends again now...so the rest of the week got back on track. I am intending on this one becoming a long-term habit, more than just a weekly thing. 



This week my wishes are:

  • To purchase gum-tape and a sample pack for prints that I've been meaning to buy for ages, both of which I need to progress with some art work i've been planning. 
  • To update my 'About me' page & import Disqus on my blog, as the current comments system isn't that easy to manage. I keep missing comments & not replying to people (if that's you, then i'm sorry).
  • To get emailing with Lauren at Lipglossed Ninja, my Snail Mail Collective partner this month. And to start putting together my package for her...based on the 'Autumn' theme.


Think I'll leave it at those 3 for this week.

If you want to join in too, or check out some other great Weekly Wishers, jump over HERE 
to Melyssa's blog, the Nectar Collective.


Have a Wonderfully Productive Week Everyone!! 





p.s. I'm celebrating a little blog-milestone today. I told myself i'd mark it when my total pageviews pass the 2000 barrier. I know lots of people get far more than that daily, but yesterday A-L-P bust right through that barrier....well done little blog of mine. See you at the next 1000 I hope :) 




Friday, 11 October 2013

Coffee Break - 5 for Friday & a little blogging jealousy!



Autumn has definitely arrived here in Europe hasn't it? 
There's tales of people putting on the heating, adding those extra layers & cosying up all over the place!

Here in the Peachy household Autumn means dusting off our coats, occasionally braving the cold, 
but mainly lots and lots of hiding in the warmth watching Autumn TV! 
All our favourites are back...Strictly Come Dancing, The Great British Bake Off, 
Downton and now Homeland too! 
I really must get out my knitting again, then I can knit and watch at the same time, 
so all those hours aren't completely lost!

I'm really getting into my blogging now. This week I asked you the most romantic movies of your life, and it's proven to be one of my most popular posts so far. I'm honoured that you've read & commented, thank you.

But the best thing by far about blogging is all the gorgeous people I've 'met' so far. You're some very talented people out there....go and give yourselves a little pat on the back from me please!



I love this part of the week, when I get to look back over the fabulous things I've found.
So, without further ado, grab that cuppa, kick back and get clicking on my



5 for Friday... (actually a sneaky 6...shhhh)

  • Check out this gorgeous site, My Little Paris, which I intend to get truly buried in, by means of French homework of course ;)
  • You say 'Potayto', I say 'Potahto'. You say 'Tomayto', I say 'Tomahto'...but wait, before we call the whole thing off take a look at this guide to being divided by a common language! (of course we say 'NHS', you say 'Obamacare'...and some of you say 'no to Obamacare' and then everything shuts...but the less said about that the better hey?)



Before we head off into the weekend, I just want to give a big shout, hello and waves to.....

Lauren at LipglossedNinja - all the way down there in South Africa, who will be my partner for my first Snail Mail Collective. Take a look at her luscious beauty blog (whilst trying not to be too jealous that we're getting Autumn, but she's getting Spring!)

&

Katherine aka 'The Duchess of Plumewood' ...who was the first of my nominees to answer my Sunshine Award questions. Such a fun way to find out more about her....plus see if you can spot the 'untruth'!



So what does the weekend have in store for you?

We're off to a 60th 'bad taste' themed birthday party....got no idea what i'm going to wear for that one!
Then lunch with my girlfriends on Sunday, when I'll most likely be coming back super-broody after hanging out with my friend's gorgeous baby boy....watch out Mr Peach!


Have a super weekend whatever you're up to....
hope it's the greatest!




Tuesday, 8 October 2013

The most romantic movies of my life (so far).

Yesterday I read this article in The Guardian, listing their top ten most romantic movies of all time.
And it got me thinking.
I'm an absolute sucker for a romance.
So, what would my list be? What are the most romantic films of my life?

I'm a child of the 80's. So I spent the best part of my teens, in the 90's, dreaming about finding true love.


I fell in love with a floppy haired, bumbling, poshboy. 
I wanted to kiss in the rain, because 'there comes a point you can't get any wetter' 
& promise to 'not marry' him for the rest of my life.


Then I learned some quick Plato....that men and women were once one, until they upset the gods. 
The gods 'split them right down dead centre'. 
Now we search our whole lives to find that other half again. 
I wanted to be Marisa Tomei being chased all around beautiful Italy 
by another floppy haired boy with pretty eyes.


I fell in love with another beautiful country. 
I wanted to wear a diamond necklace "like ziss", to eat creamy cheese on scenic trains and learn to make delicious wine infused with all the scents of the beautiful French hillside vineyards. 
(although I personally had a more fresh faced lover in mind than Kevin Kline...sorry Kev.)




What romance would be complete without the greatest love story of all time? 
This one re-awoken by Baz Luhrman.
I wanted to be Clare Danes - post So Called Life, but still pre Carrie. 
To wear beautiful wings, dance around neon fishes and kiss floppy haired Romeo in the pool at midnight. 
To wake up and tell him
"Yon light is not daylight, I know it, I.
It is some meteor that the sun exhales."




Whoops....how did he get in there?
Oh well - I know it's not really a romance. 
But nobody can say no to Jakey G in a hoodie, pouting those incredible lips...
Can they?




What romance!
Dreamy Amelie, bathed in sepia tones, who looks in a different way at the people all around her 
and sees the great loves they don't even know that they hold themselves.
And how she finds her greatest love....then celebrates in the greatest way.....
pedalling around beautiful Paris at full pelt.



OK, a warning. 
We're about to get really soppy, because after this I met Mr Peach. 





Before she went all Carrie-crazy, Clare Danes popped back as the star Celeste...
an actual star, from the sky.
I'm not saying this is the most romantic film of all time, by a long stretch. 
But, for me it's right up there.
Because i'll let you into a secret...
I'm not sure why, but I remember it very clearly...
It was right at the end of this film that I realised for the first time that I loved Mr Peach.
(Of course I didn't tell him right there, because it was quite early on 
and I didn't want to scare him off being all soppy and everything)




Then a few years later we went to Paris.
And you see that bench, right there....
well that's where Mr Peaches asked me to marry him!
(and Woody must have thought it was a good idea, because he copied us 
and jumped right in our place after we left!).




So, how about you?

Do you share my love of any of these? Or perhaps you think quite differently.

What are the greatest romantic movies of YOUR life?








Monday, 7 October 2013

Weekly wishes - Week #3


Hey my lovelies! A big Happy Monday to you all - Welcome to the week!

I have to say that wasn't the most successful of weekends so I'm quite happy to see the new week.
We didn't manage to do much of what I had planned. I completely failed to get tickets for Glastonbury, despite spending most of the morning with both mine and Mr Peach's laptops at arms length, refreshing web pages. Fail! 
We did manage to go out for a walk and a big cup of frothy coffee in the sunshine, which was lovely. 
I managed to make my first chocolate torte, which was yummy but absolutely no good for the diet. 
And we both caught up with lots of completely indulgent, un-educational television, including the new series of Strictly and Homeland. 

So, I'm absolutely determined that this is going to be a far more productive week.....ready to join me?

Last week my wishes were:

1) Job applications. This didn't go as well as I'd have hoped, but I have made some important decisions. I would like to say thank you so much to those who left such lovely words of encouragement for me - thank you x
2) Continue 30 mins per day excercise - This actually went really really well - I went out every day for a bike ride, except Tuesday and have worked out a nice 10k route.  
3) Clean our bedroom and sort all my accessories & products - What can i say? This did not go well at all. I even managed to temporarily lose one of my precious wedding earrings, but this was obviously fate as finding it led me to one of my favourite bracelets with silver horse's heads on it, that I've been missing for months (it was under my bed).

I did, however, do some fiddling around with my blog, in the process learning some new ways to edit my photos, a bit about web editing and a little bit of coding - so I did achieve something after all!


This week I've decided to keep it really, really simple. It's not really a wish so much as an instruction to myself. This week I am going to switch off all music, TV and other distractions and spend the afternoon, every afternoon, working at my kitchen table. (That's not my kitchen up there in that picture, but I'd like it to be...isn't it lovely?!) 

This is going to lead me to have the most productive week ever! Promise!

So, where do you do your best work?





p.s. Weekly Wishes is a fabulous shared endeavour - loads of fun to be a part of and a really big help to keep you focused through the week - trust me! Join in with Melyssa at The Nectar Collective and share your own wishes for the week ahead....just hit the button below to take you right there......

The Nectar Collective





Thursday, 14 March 2013

Habemus Papam! - We Have a Pope! - Nous avons un Pape!

Dearest Peaches,

Great news X 2!

The last time I posted, two days ago, was a rather lengthy discussion around the selection of a new Pope. 
Well excitingly, at around 6pm (UK time) yesterday evening, Vatican watchers witnessed telling white smoke emit  from the chimney of the Sistine Chapel. Just over an hour later it was proclaimed 'Habemus Papam!' (we have a Pope!). Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio, becoming Pope Francis I, appeared to rapturous applause on the balcony of St Peter's Basilica.

Pope Francis
Photograph: Peter Macdiarmid/Getty Images - via Guardian.co.uk
I have to say, for a non-catholic, I was totally gripped, as I have been to the whole mysterious process.
In a moment, my thoughts on this appointment.

But first, exciting news #2!!
I have my first follower! (Hello!!)
I quietly made this blog live a couple of days ago and spent most of yesterday working out how to add the 'followers' button, since Blogger (in conjunction with Google +) has now removed the easy way to do this that I've used on my previous blog. Honestly Google, have you heard the saying "If it ain't broke"?....obviously not!

Anyway, that now resolved, I have added every method of following that I could possibly find to ALP and am told I have TWO followers! I had to add myself in order to figure out Google+ but it looks as if I have another follower too....so Bonjour et Bienvenue à 'Avoir la Peche'!

Now, back to this fella.....

Pope Francis first day: Newly elected Pope Francis, Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio
Photograph: 

Well he certainly seems like a happy chappie...and I was completely sold on the humble, modest and personable way in which he greeted thousands of people who had come to welcome him in St Peter's square  yesterday evening.
But how does he shape up to my thoughts, during the Conclave, on what would (and should) win 'Pope Idol'? 
Let's see....

Age?
I said: It is thought that the cardinals might go for someone who is younger, since Pope Benedict retired citing heath issues of old age.
Well, Benedict was 78 when elected, Pope Francis is 76. So, not correct on that one - since he was one of the older cardinals.
Though, Pope Francis is apparently in fine health for his age, despite having lived for over 50 years with only one functioning lung!

Scandal?
Pope Francis is embroiled in neither the Vatileaks scandal nor the abuse scandals that have rocked the Catholic church.
I said: The Cardinals will need to choose a louder, more charismatic figure - someone who is able to use their popularity to dig the Catholic church out of both of these scandals with its head held high.

Whilst serving as Archbishop of Buenos Aries, Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio turned down the formal, palatial Bishop's residence in favour of a modest apartment  cooking his own food and travelling to 'work' on the bus. This smacks to me of charisma, but not of the in your face, celebrity kind. A more modest kind that might ingratiate him with his people and seemingly one which he might impress upon the doctrine of the church. He is not a 'Vatican insider' (not holding many positions within the powerful 'Curia' of the church) - which hopefully will bring more benefits than troubles for him. Although he might not be familiar with the traditions and politics of the Curia, it is hoped that this might actually be beneficial and lead to his constructive reform of the Curia as a priority.

Of course, this is all not to say that there is no scandal in the new Pope's past, which the media have spent at least the past ten hours desperately trying to scrape up. So far they have patched together an argument with Argentina's prime minister over gay rights and something in the past regarding the keeping of prisoners under the military junta....but honestly, who that has spoken up and put themselves in a position of any authority is without stories that might excite this world's crazy modern media?

Scholarly or Pastoral?
It looks to me that Pope Francis would perfectly fit what I had suggested, since on balance his strengths lie in the pastoral. Of course, he has the necessary knowledge and scholarship to hold this position. But, what clearly makes him stand out from his predecessor already is his pastoral experience, the like of which enabled him to introduce himself so humbly and personally yesterday evening. His rejection of the trappings of Archbishopdome exemplifies his ability for pastoral management. Through this gesture he has shown his humility and aligned himself more to the poor who make up such a percentage of his congregation and indeed the catholic church worldwide.

Nationality
Argentinian, of Italian heritage.
I am so pleased that the largest catholic population in the world have found their representation. It also bodes well for other nations outside of Europe. In my eyes this is both a just and encouraging gesture by the Catholic church.
Of course, the fact that Bergoglio is of Italian heritage would also sit comfortably for the Italian cardinals who, as well as knowing they are electing a Pope, would also be aware that they are appointing the 'Bishop of Rome'.

Conservative or Moderate?
Pope Francis ultimately falls under the umbrella of 'Conservative'. He is a Jesuit and believes in true, pure Catholic doctrine - taking the church back to its simple roots.
However, he does advocate the use of contraception to prevent disease so this is a big tick against my request for a Pope who would permit the use of contraception to curb deaths from HIV and Aids.

He has also said these encouraging words on unmarried mothers, which although do not cast him as a moderate, imply that there is room for discussion and a different take on such matters:

"In our ecclesiastical region there are priests who don't baptise the children of single mothers because they weren't conceived in the sanctity of marriage. These are today's hypocrites. Those who clericalise the church. Those who separate the people of God from salvation. And this poor girl who, rather than returning the child to sender, had the courage to carry it into the world, must wander from parish to parish so that it's baptised!"


And, of course, the most important question. Will I still be able to show people the time when I met 'The Pope' on the steps of this church?


Well, YES!...I'd say so!

But, more fabulously than that...this very church 'Santa Maria Maggiore' was where Pope Francis chose to take his first private prayer this morning. Here he is leaving by a different door:

Pope Francis first day: Pope Francis waves as he leaves Santa Maria Maggiore Basilica
Photograph: 
If he is a humble and modest as he appears to be so far then this was an absolutely perfect choice. The Santa Maria Maggiore is outside of the walls of the Vatican, in Rome itself. It was opposite our hotel and such a magnificent building, but in a totally meek way. A million miles away from the gilt and marble encrusted St Peter's Basilica. I wrote a report on Trip Adviser encouraging people to visit this beautiful church, with its stunning ceiling mosaiics and open, clean central space - but most of all to enjoy the serene atmosphere of what is clearly still a daily working church. I doubt it will be quite so easy to visit next time we are in Rome!

So, everything seems to be working out great so far. 

Pope Francis I wish you all the luck you deserve in your mammoth new job.
Oh, and your wedding invitation is in the post!

Mlle Peche x






Tuesday, 12 March 2013

Pope Idol - Pape Idol

Bon après-midi à nouveau

(Good afternoon again)


Me with the Pope in Rome 2011


After the resignation of Pope Benedict XVI last month, today marks the beginning of the 'Papal Conclave' where 115 cardinals will be locked into the Sistine Chapel, Rome, to elect the next Pope in complete secrecy.

Mr Peach and I laughed this morning when we wondered if the Cardinals' experience in the chapel will be somewhat different from our own. Will they have to dodge endless gangs of Cruise ship passengers with their lollypop guides, on their way in? If they avoid that obstacle will they be told to "get back in line", after trying to skip a room on the three hour tour through endless, tedious rooms of religious iconography, that precedes the chapel? And, once in the chapel will they be crammed up against thousands of others, most of whom are filming (filming??) the stationary frescoes, whilst being shouted at by aggressive Vatican guards to 'Respect the Church!', 'No Photo!'?....hmm,....obviously not (but humour me).

Mr Peach & I about to start 'the longest museum visit on earth'...to reach the Sistine Chapel!

This time the 'competition' is a wide open field, with no outstanding candidates - my two favourite news websites seem unable to agree on 'Papabile' (Cardinals likely to be chosen for Pope) . The BBC have listed their choice ten 'Runners & Riders' here, with a brief outline of their CV, strengths & weaknesses. The Guardian have provided a much more detailed guide with all 115 Cardinals listed and their 'Papabile' highlighted. It can take months for a Pope to be elected, but by the time you've got through all 115 there may already be one!

I'm not Catholic myself, but Mr Peach is and in July we'll be marrying in his Catholic Church in St Annes. So, as a good wife-of-a-Catholic to be, I am very interested. Mr Peach has also been taking a teaching course called the Catholic Certificate in Education, this past two years - of which I have also had a read and found interesting, so I have more idea of Catholic doctrine than I once did.

On top of this - I hear that if you invite the Pope or the Queen to your wedding, they always send a reply (even if they can't come) - so I wonder who we're going to be writing to???

Here are some of the things the Cardinals will be thinking about:

Age?
It is thought that the cardinals might go for someone who is younger, since Pope Benedict retired citing heath issues of old age.

Scandal?
There are two enormous scandals engulfing the Catholic Church at the moment. The 'Vatileaks' scandal concerning financial cover-ups at the Vatican and (several) sexual abuse scandals involving Priests and their superiors. Any involvement in either might (and really should!) hinder a Candidate's chances. The Cardinals will need to choose a louder, more charismatic figure - someone who is able to use their popularity to dig the Catholic church out of both of these scandals with its head held high.

Scholarly or pastoral?
The CV's show various amounts of work in the scholarly field, in the doctorate of the Church, versus time spent in pastoral work, in amongst the congregations. Personally I believe that, whilst they will obviously need an excellent knowledge of the teachings and the Catechism of the church, knowledge is only valuable up to a point. Like all heads or managers, which at the end of the day is what the Pope is, having a connection with those who they lead will be their greatest asset. For the Cardinals a great connection to 'the people' gained through working in the field would be an asset.

Nationality?
There are no British candidates. It's thought that the Cardinals might shy away from another native German speaker, their last choice, Pope Benedict having been German speaking.
The majority of Cardinals (60% I think) are European - the majority of these being Italian, so the chances of an Italian Pope are mathematically quite high. The greatest Catholic population in the world at the moment is in South America. Then Europe. The next greatest, but by far the fastest growing Catholic population is in Africa.
In my eyes the cardinals will need to make a choice between pushing the rejuvenation of a waning following in Europe, or taking the opportunity to use Catholicism for the greater good in South America and Africa, by choosing one of their candidates as a figurehead.

Conservative or moderate? 
I am pleased to see so many of the Cardinals are on Twitter and other social media - connecting with the world in a very sensibly modern way - since this is where the majority go to now for information and to connect on a global scale. However, as one of the more conservative 'Twitterati' candidates put it, being modern and using social media, does not make you a moderate.
Personally I think that if the Catholic church wants to remain an important world power they need to embrace some elements that would be considered moderate. The issues of allowing abortion and ordaining of female Priests are obviously high on that agenda. But, as reform issues go, for me these pale into insignificance versus the allowing of contraception, namely condoms. This is such an important issue both in South America, for the largest Catholic population in the world, but vitally in Africa, with its growing Catholic following, where BILLIONS die each year from HIV & Aids. If a Pope were elected who advocated the use of Condoms to prevent spread of disease, and maybe even to curb population growth, which would ease poverty of the type so prominent in South America, this could begin to benefit a huge swath of the worldwide population within our lifetime. So, for me this is the biggest Pope-factor of all, that he have a firm belief in the reform of Catholic teaching on contraception.

So, there we are. I'm not going to get into candidates, or really ask how relevant the change in Pope will be to my own life.
But it's interesting to learn a little isn't it. I guess we'll just have to wait for that white smoke out of the chimney at the Sistine Chapel!

Oh I missed one final characteristic.....he'll need to be small and white haired....so I can continue to convince people that really is me with the Pope in that first picture! Tee hee!

Adieu
Mlle Peche xx